Cat Communication
A 12-Year Journey into Understanding Feline Language
2024 marks my twelfth year of owning cats. Many people ask me whether cats can actually understand human speech. My answer is: yes, but not in the way you might think.
I currently have three cats at home. The oldest is Mantou, eleven years old, the first cat I adopted from a rescue shelter. The second is Huajuan, seven years old, born from a friend's cat. The youngest is Baozi, three years old, a stray cat I picked up. These three cats communicate in completely different ways.
Meet the Cats
Mantou
Adopted from rescue shelter
The eldest and the boss. Speaks sparingly but precisely. Knows about 20-30 vocabulary words.
Huajuan
Born from a friend's cat
Barely meows at all. Communicates almost entirely through body language and eye contact.
Baozi
Rescued stray cat
A complete chatterbox. Meows morning, night, before and after meals, constantly.
Mantou's Communication Style
Mantou, this cat that I've raised for eleven years, knows a vocabulary of about twenty to thirty words. "Eat," "canned food," "go out," "get down," "no," "sleep," "brush teeth"—she understands all of these. I'm not exaggerating; she really understands. When you say "eat," she walks toward the kitchen. When you say "canned food," she runs toward the kitchen. The speed is different.
It took me about three years to figure out her vocalization system. Mantou has six different types of vocalizations, each with a different meaning. A short "meow" is a greeting. A drawn-out "meoooow" means she wants something. A low "aow" means she's unhappy. A purring "rrrr" means she's comfortable. A sharp "hiss" is a warning. And there's a chattering sound she makes when she sees birds outside the window.
I once tried recording these sounds and analyzing the frequencies with software. It was useless. Cat communication isn't just about sound—it also involves the angle of their ears, the position of their tail, the size of their pupils, and the direction of their whiskers. If you only analyze sound, you're only seeing a quarter of the picture.
Mantou's Six Vocalizations
"Meow"
Short & quick — Greeting
"Meoooow"
Drawn out — Wants something
"Aow"
Low & deep — Unhappy
"Rrrr"
Purring — Comfortable
"Hiss"
Sharp — Warning
"Kak-kak"
Chattering — Sees birds
Huajuan Barely Meows
Huajuan is the complete opposite. This cat might not meow twenty times in an entire year. Her communication method is almost entirely through body language. When she wants to eat, she sits next to her food bowl and looks at you. When she wants the door opened, she sits at the door and looks at you. When she's unhappy, she hides under the bed.
At first I thought there might be something wrong with this cat. I took her to the hospital for a checkup—her vocal cords were fine, her hearing was fine. The vet said some cats are just like this; they don't like to meow.
Later I discovered that Huajuan's eye communication is highly developed. She can talk to you with her eyes. Slow blinking indicates trust and relaxation—many people know this. Rapid blinking means anxiety. Suddenly dilated pupils mean excitement or fear. Eyes narrowed to slits means extreme relaxation. Staring directly at you means she's demanding something.
Now when I communicate with Huajuan, I basically don't need to speak. I blink, she blinks. I point to her bowl, she walks over. This system took three years to establish.
Baozi is a Chatterbox
Baozi was a stray cat. When I picked her up at three years old, she was already an adult. This cat's communication style is completely different from the other two. She meows non-stop. Morning meowing, evening meowing, meowing before meals, meowing after meals too, meowing when you look at her, meowing when you don't look at her.
Stray cats are generally more vocal. This is my observation; it may not be accurate. Perhaps it's because survival outdoors requires more vocal communication—claiming territory, finding food, avoiding danger—all require vocalization.
Baozi has even more types of vocalizations than Mantou, and I still haven't fully figured them out. Some vocalizations I know the meaning of; others I really don't. Sometimes she meows at the wall, meows at the air, meows at the ceiling. I don't know what she's meowing at. Maybe she doesn't know either.
Editor's Note, August 2024: Baozi was recently diagnosed with hyperthyroidism; her excessive vocalization may be related to this. Currently undergoing treatment.
Communication Between Cats
The communication among the three cats is an entirely different system. They rarely use vocalizations with each other; they mainly use scent and body language.
I've studied cat scent communication for a long time. When they rub their cheeks against objects, they're leaving scent markers. When they scratch things with their claws, they're also leaving scent—cat paw pads have glands. When they present their rear end to you, it's not impolite; they're letting you smell their scent, which is a sign of trust.
Mantou is the boss, and her scent markers cover the entire home. Huajuan and Baozi only mark in their own territories. My living room is a shared area; all three cats mark there. My study is Mantou's territory; the other two rarely go in. The bedroom is Huajuan's territory; she spends all day lounging on the bed. The balcony is Baozi's territory; she likes watching out the window.
Territorial Map of the Home
Living Room
Shared by all three
Study
Mantou's domain
Bedroom
Huajuan's domain
Balcony
Baozi's domain
The three cats occasionally fight. I've observed the communication before fights many times. First they stare at each other, neither blinking. Ears flatten back, tails puff up. Low growling begins. If neither side backs down at this point, they'll start fighting.
Mantou, as the boss, basically never needs to fight—she just glares and the other two back off. Huajuan and Baozi have fought a few times, always started by Baozi. Stray cats are just more aggressive.
Common Misconceptions About Cat Communication
After twelve years of raising cats, I've found that many people have misconceptions about cat communication.
Thinking cats can't understand human speech
Cats can understand. Their hearing is much better than humans, and they can hear a much wider frequency range. They can distinguish your tone of voice, manner of speaking, and emotions. They know when you call their name. They know what "eat" means. They just choose to selectively ignore you.
Thinking cats don't express emotions
Cats do express emotions; it's just in a different way. Dogs express themselves very outwardly—wagging their tails, licking you, jumping on you. Cats express themselves more subtly—slow blinks, rubbing against you, lying down near you. If you think cats don't express emotions, it's because you're measuring cats by dog standards.
Thinking all cats are the same
My three cats have completely different personalities and completely different communication styles. Mantou speaks sparingly but precisely, Huajuan almost never speaks but has strong eye communication, Baozi talks a lot but the meaning is unclear. You can't use one method for all cats.
My Advice for New Cat Owners
A Consistent Vocabulary is Important
When you talk to your cat, use consistent words. If you say "eat" today, "dinner time" tomorrow, and "come eat something" the day after, the cat will be confused. My three cats all hear the same vocabulary; everyone in my family knows which words to use.
Tone Matters More Than Content
Cats don't understand grammar or sentence structure. What they hear is your tone. Happy tone, angry tone, anxious tone—they can distinguish these. When you scold your cat, the content doesn't matter; the tone does.
Observation is More Important Than Speaking
You need to spend time observing your cat—watching their ears, tail, eyes, whiskers. Every cat has their own body language system. You need to learn to read your cat, rather than expecting your cat to read you.
Don't Force Communication
Some cats just don't like interacting with people. If you insist on engaging with them, they'll avoid you. When you ignore them, they'll actually come to you. Cats are like this—the more you want to get close, the more they avoid you; when you don't pay attention to them, they come looking for you.
Research on Cat Vocalizations
In recent years, academic research on cat communication has been increasing. I've read some papers and will share a few findings.
Cat meowing is primarily directed at humans. Wild cats rarely meow to each other; domestic cats meow to humans. Some researchers believe this developed during the domestication process, specifically as a sound for communicating with humans.
Cats can distinguish between their owner's voice and a stranger's voice. A Japanese study played recordings for cats—cats reacted when they heard their owner's voice but reacted much less to strangers' voices. This shows cats know who is who.
Cat purring frequency is between 25 and 150 hertz, and this frequency is said to help with bone healing. Some speculate that purring is a form of self-healing. This hasn't been definitively proven; many researchers don't accept it.
Final Thoughts
After twelve years of raising cats, my biggest realization is this: you need to let go of the human-centric way of thinking. Cats are not small dogs, not furry human babies, not your accessories. Cats are cats. They have their own communication system, their own social rules, their own needs and preferences. You need to learn to understand cats in a cat's way, not demand cats behave in a human way.
I've seen too many people complain that cats don't listen, cats aren't affectionate, cats are too cold. These people's problem isn't the cat—it's themselves. They're not willing to spend time understanding cats; they just want an obedient pet. Cats aren't that kind of animal.
If you want an obedient pet that comes when called, get a dog. Cats aren't for you.